Sorry this post is late. I would say that the image that sticks in my mind, is from the opening scene in the bar from the movie Torch Song Trilogy with the song Dames. I was 14 the first time I saw this movie and at the time I definately knew that I was gay. Twenty years later I still remember it well.
I HIGHLY respect those willing to stand behind their comments with a name. So if you use "Anonymous" on a viewpoint that challenges mine, IT WILL BE DELETED for your cowardice to not show yourself makes your viewpoint and you irrelevant.