Thursday, April 2, 2009

Fearing Ageism Condoned, But I'm Partying On

I had a great birthday, and a great big THANKS, to all those who sent me birthday wishes.

In the end of my post, "Fuckin' Hot, 38 Rocks", I admitted to how I never got a birthday fuck. Well, that has now changed. I went bar-hoping that night and hooked up with a cutie I met at The Cock. I'm not going to get into details about how this came about, or how it turned out. All I will say is that it was a hot one-on-one session. That is all. Now on to more important issues.

A disappointing thing I will say about that day was more on the publicity front. I sent tips out to 3 of the big name porn news sites (Fleshbot, GayPornTimes, and TheSword) about my post "Fuckin' Hot, 38 Rocks", and I was a bit perturbed to see none of them cover it. When I deal with important matters on this blog, I send tips to them all the time, and for the most part nothing gets posted., and I accept that. It comes with the territory, right? However, there comes a time when the subject matter I'm addressing is too important to be ignored, and this is one of them.

In my Aries stubbornness, I rarely question myself. And I'm not questioning myself now. After looking it over repeatedly after I wrote it, I know for a fact that I should not have came off as an asshole vain about his looks in "Fuckin' Hot, 38 Rocks", and the only people who would think so are those envious of how well I've maintained myself asthey have fallen prey to the racial generalizing saying, "Black don't crack". When in fact, Black does crack. Because look at Double R from "Love Of The Dick 4". Who in that scene looks older, him or me? Exactly my point, because there I was 35 when I did that scene, and he was in his 20s. But you wouldn't know it.

My intention behind that post was to make the older gay men who take care of themselves by way of a decent amount of exercise, making sure they lead a less stressful life, and no plastic surgery, Botox, or what have you to feel good about getting older, and not feel they had to go the route of those who show they are vain and insecure by doing the opposite. This was my pat on the back to those men who age NATURALLY therefore GRACEFULLY, and give them the incentive to not sway from that path. To not see someone back me up on giving that much needed pat on the back troubles me.

I will be the 1st to admit that I am part of an industry that incites many "-isms" in not just the gay community, but our society overall, with ageism being a BIG one of them. So I felt any words I could say about myself to undo that damage, I should say it and say it loud and proud. And anyone who has the power to aid me in making it louder (like those sites), should back me up. I wish those sites that I tipped off felt the same. I know they get many press releases and such, but there is a time when one can slip in a little word about something with as deep a meaning as what I was trying to convey.

Now I am by no means trying to tell them how to run their site by writing this. I'm just expressing my concern of what their ignoring that particular post means.

Well, even though my birthday was Tuesday, I'm still celebrating. THANKS to Daniel Nardicio, Joel Israel, Gant Johnson & JC Powers, I'll finalize the club version of my celebration at their new party, TRASH held downstairs at Splash on Friday nights. I'll be checking out the go-go boys, watching them in their shower show, which satisfies my fetish for hot wet guys. Therefore YES, THERE WILL BE DROOL.

So if you stop by Splash tonight, and you see me around, say HELLO. I don't bite....unless you want me to.


1 comment:

  1. Congrats, birthday sex is always special.

    Oh and yeah, I'd say you are still looking hot!

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