Monday, January 14, 2008

The Fuckin' Degrees

I have written here before about my disdain for gay-for-pay actors. What I (or anyone else I've seen so far for that matter) have yet to do is breakdown the degrees of when a straight guy has to admit that he's either gay or bi, and nip it in this bud once and for all why these guys are kidding themselves, and the studios that use them are not only enabling these guys to lie to themselves, but are making uncomfortable work environments for the gay porn actors that are admittedly gay, therefore true to themselves about their sexuality.

I am understanding to the fact of how we all have curiosity, and that curiosity may make us experiment with things that we soon discover are outside of our individual nature. Experimenting with sexuality is no different. So it's no shock how a guy who considers himself to be straight might be curious about sex with a man from the perspective of a top, a bottom, or both. Therefore, it should be allowed to for a straight guy's 1st time with a guy to be considered The Fuck of Curiosity.

Now, if a man who considers himself straight has sex with a guy for a 2nd time, don't call him a gay in denial or bisexual just yet. He may have sex with that guy to confirm whether or not he really enjoyed the sensations he experienced the 1st time. So just like when you are diagnosed with something and need a confirmation test, this fuck would be a Confirmation Fuck.

Sometimes when one is diagnosed with something, and get a confirmation test, they want a 2nd confirmation. The trick is that they won't go to the same doctor. The same holds true for the straight guy considering himself straight wanting a 2nd confirmation about his possible homo- or bisexuality. If he truly wants this 2nd Confirmation Fuck, and isn't ready to accept being gay or bi, he's not going to ride the same ass or take on the same cock as he did the 1st and /or 2nd time. He going to go for a new ass or cock. If he doesn't go for someone new, then forget everything you just read about this degree entirely, and move on to -

-how after a guy considering himself straight has went through all these degrees, and finds that he likes sex with men, he needs to admit something to himself. If this guy who considers himself straight fucks any male for a 4th time and beyond, it is beyond a shadow of a doubt that he is either some degree of bi, or totally gay, and the only reason he has sex with women is to lie to himself, therefore lie to women.

The fact is simple. If you are not in prison, a monastery, seminary, a single-gendered school, or something of the like, then you live in a world where both adult genders are readily available to you. Therefore, as an adult there is no valid excuse for you to live a lie where you use money as an excuse. Just as there wasn't one for me living a lie and not realizing my sexuality until I was nearing 31.

And that's brings me to my problem of these guys considering themselves straight, and lying to themselves. Because that lie is not only to themselves, it's also to the females in their lives, and their children. First, let me make clear, I say "guy's" because men don't do things like this to themselves therefore to their females. And I say "females" because ladies or women wouldn't lower themselves to enabling this lie when they are well aware that he participates in this kind of behavior.

Therefore, pass this statement on to the females in their lives. You need to stop thinking that just because he fucks you, and may be get you pregnant, that he's so straight. REALITY CHECK - CASH IT AND CASH IT FAST, if he keeps riding a male ass, and/or taking a cock up his own ass then he's either bi or a totally gay man fucking you to lie to himself, thereby lie to you. And you need to wake up, accept that fact, and stop acting so desperate for a guy in your life that you take anything that comes your way. Because that's exactly what you're doing. It's not good for you, and even worse, it's not good for the children.

Now, on to the gay porn producers and directors that use these guys. By casting these gay-for-pay actors, you are showing yourselves to be every bit of the lecherous S.O.B.'s that the conservative mainstream want to portray porn producers and directors to be. I'm not saying that the conservative mainstream are saints (being the hypocrites they are, far from it), but you're giving them the proof that helps solidify their claim of how far from saints porn producers and directors can be. After all, you are making an uneasy work environment for your truly gay actors. Most of them won't tell you, because they are afraid of not working again if they do. But since I can take or leave this business, whether I worked with you or not, I have no problem telling you. In fact, Pitbull Productions is more than aware of my dislike of it after my writing "Gay For Pay, Not My Way". And if I haven't worked with you, I probably never will now, but if you continue to take part in this business practice, then it's better that I don't. Because if you know better to not cast a gay-for-pay actor with me, then you would most likely take advantage of the silence of my co-star(s). And I say this after hearing a good enough number of gay porn actors who are truly gay, express the same discomfort that I have had in with working with a gay-for-pay actor.

The key to ending this problem is for us as males to be self-aware of our sexuality before involving others in any way. That is why it took me so long to be sexually active. I didn't want to involve someone else, and steer them wrong when I'm not comfortable being honest with myself as to who and what I am. That's what these gay-for-pay actors need to start doing with themselves. They bring their denial of their true selves onto a porn set, and take it home to their private lives. And this is behavior only fools would enable. So I hope any porn producer or director, or females involved with these gay-for-pay actors or escorts, read this seeing the mistake they are making, and stop this now.

2 comments:

  1. "for a 4th time and beyond, it is beyond a shadow of a doubt that he is either some degree of bi, or totally gay, and the only reason he has sex with women is to lie to himself, therefore lie to women"

    i assume you mean the last statement to be valid for the gay guys not the bi guys (or should i say boys?...sounds better)

    gay 4 pay actors
    why not accepting thats what they are: actors
    whether a man "plays" a woman, or any other other role for that matter why not accepting that there will be actors who play gay.
    To me porn or any other movie is simply visualizing a fantasy world
    and pretending in that fantasy what you not are in real life is automatically part of the concept, the roles that actors fill in.
    However i do understand that gay actors might consider this uncomfortable.

    I think you can see in a porn when an actor is really into it or not.
    The better ones are the ones where you see actors truly enjoy the scenes.

    Finally i see a lot of gays enjoying the thought that a str8 guy is acting in gay activities. Look at x-tube its filled with these so called str8 guys sucking and fucking guys....str8 ? yeah right... but the phenomenon shows that it is a marketable aspect of the porn industry

    so recap...not really following your argumentations...besides the fact that you as an actor prefer to play with gay actors.

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  2. It seems to me that Tre is simply saying that these guys should be honest with themselves.

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