Wednesday, January 8, 2020

How Straight Are Males In Straight Porn Really?

I have long said that there is nothing wrong with fantasizing about sex with a straight male. Wrongdoing doesn't come until you try making that fantasy become reality by imposing gay advances upon that male professing to be heterosexual when he has shown no evidence of the contrary of his professed sexual orientation.

So what about straight male porn actors? For with many straight porn actors, there are instances in many of their histories and performances that expose evidence contrary to their displayed heterosexuality seen on screen. Such as:

Having A Gay Porn Past

I'm discovering more and more of the straight male porn actors I lust for actually have gay porn in their past. Of those in the above collage, 4 of them are just a few of many. And I'm not talking about a solo jerk-off scene here and there for a gay porn movie or website. No, I'm talking about them doing a full-on sex scene of them giving dick to a male's ass, or taking a male's dick in their ass to the point of busting a nut. Even making intense eye contact during the sex.

For your average Joe, I've long said that a "straight" guy having gay sex 3 times or more exposes his claim of being 100% straight a complete self-denial. With a straight porn actor who has had gay sex on camera, it's more like 2 times. For with any porn actor, there is a camera on you, can create performance anxiety in a male. So if he can get through such a sexual scenario more than once, those males are bringing upon themselves even more question as to how straight they are.

Double Vaginal or Double Anal Penetration Scenes
When I initially posted something addressing this topic on Facebook, someone tried to comment that same-sex skin to skin contact does not define sexual orientation. Well, if you're talking about one male putting a hand on another male's bare shoulder or knee, in that regards, that person was correct. However, when you are talking about a male's genitals rubbing or touching another male's private area, like bare dick to dick, bare dick to ass, or bare ass to ass rubbing, any of which having a clear erection present, that is when I must strongly disagree.

And to prove my point, I just discovered the 1st (Oliver Flynn) & 5th (Tyler Steel) male porn actors in a double-vaginal penetration scene. No limps dicks present.

For a male of sound mind maintains his penile erection by his penis being engulf by pleasurable materials. So if it's not 100% the texture of a vagina or rectum, then the texture of that other guys penis is adding to his stimulation. And knowing of that other guy's presence makes it clear that those 2 guys are not as heterosexual as they claim to be.

If any male in straight porn that you can name displaying these indicators was to ever try to dispute what I'm saying, then that denial should cause one concern. For it means 1) that those male performers are not thinking of their scene partners as human beings; therefore 2) the sex is void of a spiritual connection. And I have stated many times that any sexual tryst should have a spiritual connection if it's to be considered a healthy one. Even a one-time tryst, like that in filming a porn scene.

Some of these male porn actors might not want to be considered bisexual. If so, then perhaps he should consider an article I applauded on Medium. It stated how while many of us focus on sexual orientation, there is also romantic orientation. I applauded that article because it definitely explains my defining as a predominately gay bisexual. For I am sexually attracted to both males and females, but males way more than females. Add to that how I am strictly romantically attracted to males. I feel these male porn actors in straight porn who display the aforementioned indicators of sexual fluidity might be the exact opposite of myself. Romantically, they are all about females, but sexually a male can spark something in them. How and to what extent that sexual attraction to males manifests itself is his call though.

Case in point: While it has been some time since I last had my dick inside a cisgendered female's pussy, my attraction to a female is often displayed by me flirting with them. Males in straight porn have an even more available means of release of that sexual attraction. They are put in situations where they get a chance to get that occasional sexual attraction to a male out by way of physical sexual contact with a male.

With that said however, I do wonder how do the male performers with a gay porn past display that degree of gay after they have stopped doing gay porn. Do they flirt with males like I do females? Are they having tryst with males off-camera and not making it public? Or worse case scenario, are they denying themselves a physical means to satisfy that urge when their body and mind is not made for that satisfaction to be achieved without physical contact? My concern about that scenario is that it can lead to the violence of gay-for-pay porn actors that I addressed 11 years ago in "Denied Self Becomes Violent Self".

My pointing out these indicators is in no way meant to throw shade on them. I'm well aware that studio-based porn is a business, and these guys passing themselves off as being totally straight is part of that. I'm just pointing out how there are signs within their history and performances that show these males in straight porn are some level of bisexual just as many of their female counterparts seem to be. Even more obvious because of the penis being such an obvious indicator of arousal. Now, whether or not they choose to admit to those signs, that is something that only their own sexual conscience will revel in or bury.

In any case, my lusting eyes is hoping for the former.

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Sex Toy Review: Fun Factory Manta

My favorite non-interactive vibrating sex toy, actually combination, for penile stimulation of the glans and shaft has always been a Magic Wand Rechargeable with a Hummingbird attachment. So much so that it is also featured in one of my XTube videos. But sometimes one would like something smaller and quieter for such stimulation. With that said, I was glad to see when Fun Factory introduced The Manta.

The one thing one could easily conclude, and be right to do so, would be that the Manta is not as strong as The Magic Wand. Of course, you would be correct. Because the bigger the toy, the much higher probability of the bigger the motor. However, that doesn't mean that bigger is better.

For the Manta has a lot of features that allows it to in some ways outdo the Magic Wand and Hummingbird combo. Such as;
  • The percentage of silicone on the Manta is much higher;
  • The Manta is waterproof. So you can take it to play in the shower, or even the bathtub;
  • The Manta has more settings (6 speeds, 6 vibrations), while the Magic Wand Rechargeable has 4 speeds and 4 vibrations, and;
  • The Manta has a 2-year warranty, while all variations of the Magic Wand have only 1-year warranties. 
The smaller size of the Manta also makes it good to assist with blowjobs and even intercourse. If your partner's penis is longer than you can fully take in, you can use the Manta to stimulate the part of his penis that your body orifice (mouth, vagina, or ass) cannot take. And even if that is not an issue, the Manta's vibration traveling to its flexible wings can cup and stimulate the balls.

With me being unlike most known sex toy reviewers, I do occasionally make videos to demonstrate the sex toy. Luckily for you, this is one of those times. And you'll notice that I don't keep the Manta in the standard perceived direction of being under the shaft. I turn it around to switch up the stimulation, and lessen the boredom.

I hope you'll try the same when you get yours. Because I definitely recommend the Manta.

Monday, December 2, 2019

Sex Toy Review: Tenga Flip Orb Strong

DISCLAIMER:  The FLIP ORB STRONG is only available in Europe and Asia. So if you're an American reader who is a fan of Tenga's Flip series, and don't want to be disappointed by knowledge of one out of your reach, then you are advised that reading further will have you living vicariously through our brothers overseas.

I recently got on Tenga's mailing list of sex toy reviewers. So I now get notified when they have a new sex toy up for review. Take that plus my history of reviewing a number of their masturbation sleeves to positive reviews, it is only right to surmise that I would be quick to request the Flip Orb Strong when they notified me about it. Even though the email made me aware that it is not available here in the United States.

With that said, I was by no means disappointed. But I was surprised. For Flip Orbs are one of the least complicated designs in the Flip series. However, the pleasure it gives is still mind-blowing.

I say that to confess that when I do a standard masturbation of jerking off, I can often orgasm in a low volume that no roommates notice, or no sound at all. However, from the Flip Hole Black in my 1st Nude Dude Review, to the Spinner, the orgasms I get from Tenga toys have always made a sound-filled orgasm hard to contain.

And now I must add the Flip Orb Strong to that list.

Those elastomer-covered orbs rubbing against the shaft and head of the penis takes you to the great sensations one comes to know with Tenga male masturbation sleeves. And while the orbs are of course the main draw, the grooved walls also made of elastomer definitely help in making the Tenga Flip Orb Strong give great sensations.

As with all Tenga masturbation toys, I recommend using a water-based lube to help your back and forth motion be the another great Tenga ride. Followed by a cleaning with a water rinse, or for those like myself who feel more secure with it, use a good anti-bacterial toy cleaner or body-safe soap to clean.

Going back to my disclaimer, if you are an American reader and this review makes you want the Flip Orb Strong accessible here in the U.S., then my best advice to you is to try using the Supply & Demand law of economics to your advantage. For it is quite likely that Tenga will supply this great sex toy to the U.S. if the knowledge and curiosity becomes in great enough demand.

I, for one, feels this toys deserves worldwide distribution.

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