Friday, March 16, 2018

Tease of a Forgetten Porn Scene's BTS

Every porn scene has a behind-the-scenes tale that often has some surprising facts in it. So this behind-the-scenes story is a tease from one of my least known porn movies, "All Out Assault". I'll give a more full story, with more shocking bits in my autobiography.

So let's start with how the pic to the right is not the DVD's cover. It almost was though. For the director posted pics of every sexual pairing from the movie in a cover pic for his followers to vote on. This pic of me and my scene partner Taino was in 1st place until the cover with Mario Ortiz and Mike Dreyden was posted. Analyzing how that came about might be something else to save for the autobiography. So moving on with today...

By the time the 2007 Gay Erotic Expo came around, I was on the verge of being done with the gay porn industry. I only went that year to give the industry one more chance to stop being the racist, bottom-demeaning, rape-inciting shit pit it was (and sadly still is) before pulling myself out of it.

I wrote a blog post expressing my disappointment of how little hope I left there with. For the only hope keeping me around longer was meeting a new porn company's director, and a stud working a booth at another new porn company.

The porn director of the 1st new company I saw, Knight Stick Films wound up being the first and only director to keep his promise of being in touch. Even Rafael Alencar didn't keep his promise, but the director of a lesser known company did. And not only that, but this director conducted his business in a way that I wanted - he wanted to put together guys with genuine attractions to each other. Not like most of studio-based porn today, which is nothing more than directors being pimps throwing together 2 or more prostitutes who are way more attracted to money than each other.

Luckily, Taino and myself did have an actual attraction. At first, when I saw Taino at a booth for the company Craig Sebastian, I thought he was doing what any porn actor working a booth did with patrons at the Gay Erotic Expo - being flirtatious to get customers. Just like I did my first time working the Gay Erotic Expo in 2005. But after my blog post about the 2007 expo, when I realized that Ben Marksman the director of "All Out Assault" paired me with Taino, and Taino's reaction to meeting me in person to sign the contracts, I realized that the attraction was mutual.

After signing the contracts to do "All Out Assault", me and Taino exchanged phone numbers so we could talk about each other's sexual likes and dislikes so our scene would flow more smoothly. He called me the next day while I was on my lunch break from working as a mail clerk at Kenyon & Kenyon. A lunch break during which I was shopping at the (no more) clothing store Daffy's. So yes, I was walking through Daffy's near the walls to avoid customers from hearing me talk about liking to suck dick, talk dirty, and be spanked (among other things) while fucking.

We also discussed Taino not liking to eat ass. I informed him that I overheard that in a conversation he had with the director the night we signed our contracts. So imagine my shock when Taino rimmed my ass like it was pair of chocolate smash-cakes for adults.

That's one behind the scenes tale for you. Here's another part that I've talked about before, but from here on out, I'll save the details for my autobiography --- The scene almost ended up having me as the top and Taino as the bottom. Enjoy.

Monday, March 12, 2018

Sex Toy Review: We-Vibe Verge

Before I start, my apologies to We-Vibe. For this review of their Verge cockring is long overdue in response to their gratitude for my Nude Dude Review of the We-Vibe Nova.

The Verge cockring by We-Vibe is a vibrating cockring primarily meant to stimulate a male-bodied persons perineum (a.k.a. taint) during sex.
To accommodate most bodies for this purpose, the Verge is quite wide, and not as stretchy as its brother cockring from We-Vibe, the Pivot. However, if the person is thick enough, then the Verge may also help with the purpose most cockrings are made for. That purpose being to make the blood flowing into the penis to cause an erection not leave so easily.

The beauty of this cockring is that while it’s marketed primarily to stimulate the perineum, it can be turned and placed in different ways to make it stimulate more than just the taint. It can also stimulate other parts in that area instead of the taint on the wearer, and/or stimulate parts of the sex partner of the wearer.
Let’s look at different ways one can wear a Verge. All of which I have tried with a playmate and can guarantee the pleasure given.

This is the marketed way to wear the We-Vibe Verge:
Worn this way, it stimulates the base of the cock, and since it is so wide, it will rock back and forth during penetration or while the wearer is being ridden by their partner. With each pressure against it from either causing the vibration to hit more against the taint. During deeper penetrations, the wearer's partner may feel the vibration along the upper-half of their vaginal lips or anus, depending on which part and gender is embracing the wearer's member.

Wearing the We-Vibe Verge this way makes it great for both vaginal and anal sex:
For vaginal sex, the wearer will of course feel their chosen vibration around the penis and testicles. Meanwhile, the part shown in the above pic that in the marketed position stimulates the taint would in this case stimulate the clitoris.

Wearing the Verge this way for anal sex will give that same vibration to the crotch while vibrating near the bottom's anus like all of these positions. The addition to using the Verge in this way is that in sexual positions like (or similar to) doggy-style it can stimulate the bottom's ass crack, while in positions like missionary it can stimulate the bottom's taint instead of that of the wearer's.

This last position, like the initial one mentioned, is very much for the wearer's pleasure.
For wearing the Verge this way cups and tickles the wearer's testicles from behind during penetration, or while he's being ridden by his partner.

The We-Vibe Verge is USB rechargeable. It is made of silicone, so it is non-porous, and can be easily cleaned with soap and water or an anti-bacterial cleaner. With that it is also waterproof, so any of the ways to wear it mentioned or that you can think of can also be done in the tub or shower. The Verge also comes with 10 vibration patterns. The intensity of each pattern can be easily controlled by downloading the We-Connect app and syncing the Verge to it. Another plus to using the We-Connect app is that with it, you can create your own vibration pattern.

Like with my playmates, I live by the old saying "variety is the spice of life". With that said, for its variety in vibration patterns, ways in can be worn, and targets of stimulation, if you're not really looking for the traditional purpose for a cockring, then I definitely give a high rating to the We-Vibe Verge.

Friday, February 23, 2018

My Sweet 16 at CumUnion

February 9, 2002.

That was the day I went out to Splash Bar (now gone) in NYC, walked through the door, and all my years of trying to figure out if I was straight, gay, or bi finally came to a close. A close that made me realize that I was bisexual, but a lot more gay than straight. A discovery that made me ready and willing to have sex with a male, which I did just a few hours later. And since those few hours later came to be after midnight, the date of me losing my virginity is February 10, 2002.

That makes it now 16 years to the day of me coming out to myself, and losing my virginity. My Sweet 16, if you will. And Sweet 16s always get a celebration. So how did I celebrate mine?

Everyone has their way to celebrate such moments. I chose to go to the sex party, CumUnion.

Quite fitting to those of you who know I lost my virginity during a 5-man orgy. And I found my 1st playmate for the night before I even entered the party. In fact, even before I paid my entry fee.

I walked down the stairs of Paddles where the party was held, and as soon as I got down the last flight of stairs, I saw an older guy with thinning blond hair on the line to get in with one person in front of him. The guy appeared to be around my age. He gave me a quick grin to acknowledge me. Then as he waited for the person in front of him to pay and go in, he took that waiting time to take a few more quick glances at me to check me out. I didn't let on that I saw this, but I did the same to him. As I noticed his good looks and took note of what I could gather of his build in his winter jacket, the louder my sexual precognitive voice screamed to me about us, "Y'all 2 are gonna fuck!"

After checking in my clothes, I saw that guy walking around for a good 15 minutes. He was still looking at me, so by this point I knew for sure his gazes at me earlier were not my imagination. Then I went on a trip to explore the backroom. It was pretty dark, which I hate. So I went to the part of the backroom where there was more light. That's where I found him again, and he found me.

As soon as he saw me, he took my cock and started stroking it. I grabbed his ass. It was nice and smooth. He then turned his back to me. Grabbing my dick for me to put it in. Earlier when my inner-voice told me that we'd fuck, it didn't make aware if I would be a top or bottom. As far as I'm concerned, it could have gone either way, but I was getting my answer at that point. Telling me that I'm going to be a top.

My cock went inside him, and his ass jiggled with each of my thrust. His ass felt great. We drew a small crowd from our moans and the slaps of my crotch against his booty. I didn't come, but he felt good enough to be a candidate to look for if I wanted to release my load.

I must admit the next guy I topped did get me a good bit closer. Maybe because I had some leftover climax-building tingle from the guy I topped before. If it wasn't for the voyeurs who were living vicariously through us to the point that they kept touching us in interfering places, I probably would have shot my load in his ass. One thing I was glad to see of myself was that this guy was also close to my age.

This back-to-back topping had me concerned that the usual would happen. That every white guy there was going to expect me to be a total top. Some black guys might be cool with this, but being that I was celebrating my coming out and losing my virginity, I also wanted to show off and celebrate my sexual growth. Primarily my becoming versatile. A great change from the total bottom I was 16 years ago. So this constant topping was getting me a little stressed. Then someone came along to pound out that stress.

This tall hottie with light brown hair, possibly red kept coming near me throughout the night. With his full lips and bubble butt, I immediately wanted him the top me the second I saw him. After seeing him fuck a couple of other guys, I thought he had no interest in me. So just as I was moving on, my peripheral vision saw him coming up behind me. I thought he was going to walk pass me. Instead, he stopped and stood behind me. He moved in closer to the point his dick grazed the crack of my bare ass, then his shaft got closer, and deeper in the crack. Growing larger with each motion forward. I reached back to touch his thigh, and in return, he put his arms around me and started kissing my neck. I allowed this for a quick bit, then turned around to face him, and squatted down to suck his dick.

His dick was semi-hard when I started sucking it. Then it grew in my mouth to become rock hard. With his moans of pleasure, I felt his cock throb in my mouth once. He picked me up and turned me back to having my back to him. He leaned me over the medical table in front of me. I quickly reached to my preparation pouch that was gartered on my left thigh to prepare my ass for his entry. I put spit lube on his cock, then he slid it into my ass. He started thrusting into me, and more and more he was hitting the spot. So much so that without even touching myself, my dick was getting hard and I could feel my pre-cum (or cum) edging closer and closer to the tip of my dick. Knowing at any moment, that edging jizz could soon become a drip with a long tail. And just before it got to that point, he came. I could feel every throb of his cock letting out that cum, and he didn't pull out of me until the very last throb and last drop were in me.

That tall hottie wasn't my only top for the night. So my celebrating gave me an equal number of bottoms and tops with a short, sexy Latino that arrived later in the night. He caught him eyeing me as soon as he walked in. Since you never know how those things will turn out, I didn't push to make anything happen. We wound up near each other by chance, and he came to me. We grazed each other, then immediately started making out. I led him over to the side in the back area and positioned myself on all fours. I lubed us both up and as soon as slid inside me slowly. But once inside, he pounded my ass cheeks so hard, it felt like I was being topped by someone twice his size.

At one point he asked, "Do you like that?"
I replied with an exasperated moan, "Fuck yeah!"

My dick was getting hard with each of his thrust. And once again, I felt his hungry cock milk my prostate. Making me pre-cum without touching myself. Or as with my previous top, possibly full-on cumming. Because at least for me, pre-cum just appears. There's no sensation telling me it's happening, unlike cum, which be its arrival to my cock, fast or slow, I feel it. Much like I did with both of these tops.

This makes me come to a realization about my sexual growth. About how as I get older, and more comfortable I am with my sexual body playing with others. I'm finding myself getting near cumming without touching myself. I take it to be that after all this time, the Sweet 16 of my coming out, my body is finally learning to let go when I bottom. What probably took it so long was the fact that my sole sexual interaction with my body up until the age of 30 was masturbation.

I'm sure this point of sexual growth could have happened sooner. I surmise that in addition to my anxiousness from my late coming out making it take this long, there's also how 3 years after my coming out, and losing some of the anxiousness, I unknowingly resurrected it by my getting into porn. So now, almost 8 1/2 years after retiring from the porn industry, my body is having the response to sex it should have naturally. For I never did, nor did I that night use drugs to ease myself to the pressures of being good at sex. Not even poppers.

So as with all of my sexual adventures, I have found the lesson I needed to learn. In this case, the epiphany about my own sexual development. So THANKS, CumUnion and Milk Chocolate NYC for a great celebration you had no idea you were giving me for my Sweet 16.

Friday, February 16, 2018

A Unicorn Horn Splits A Chocolate Peach

I recently bought a dildo made by a company called Split Peaches. The dildo was made to look like a unicorn's horn. The idea of it piqued my curiosity.

Learning it is made of silicone, therefore non-porous was one of my first considerations to buy it. So once I made my decision official, I had to decide which of the 3 sizes I wanted.

The small one was too small, and the largest one was too big. In regards to the large one, I only want to be open my hole to the width of the largest one when I'm being double penetrated by 2 hot guys. Not one big sex toy. So I chose the medium-sized one. Even though I was a bit hesitant because of the 2 1/4" diameter of the largest insertable part of the dildo. For I was wondering if I could get every last inch of that insertable length and width in.

Well this video is the result. And that thumbnail shows I got it in at least long enough for that still-frame.... But did I like it in? Check out the video to see that unicorn horn by Split Peaches split open the sweet chocolate peach that is my ass to find out.  

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