Thursday, April 12, 2018

Sex Party Review: IncubusNYC

Wednesday, March 28, 2018 was the 2nd party for IncubusNYC.
I actually went to the 1st one, but I wanted more experience before giving a critique. For the 1st one gave me some concerns. Not because of the party's premise. Instead, it was more so as to whether or not NYC was ready for such a party, since NYC has been losing its sexual edge over the past few years.

IncubusNYC is a party that is inviting of many kinks such as cosplay, pup play, and forms of BDSM. My aforementioned concern was how no one was partaking of that great kink option. I had my Maleficent horns in my bag just in case I saw anyone doing some kind of cosplay. Unfortunately, even with a decent number of guys there, no one was doing any such thing. So I left the horns in my bag. Leaving the only level of kink that I displayed being me wearing my Bull cockring by Oxballs.

In spite of this let down by the crowd, I did have some fun. Such as the hungry little Latino who craved my cock a number of times. Getting my dick in his ass, and the soft horns of that Bull cockring poking his ass cheeks with each of my thrusts. Also, the white guy who later on wanted me to fuck him while he was 69ing the Latino.

I topped off my night with a tall, gorgeous guy in a baseball cap and jockstrap who saw me checking out his bubble butt. He offered it to me by assuming the position to entice me, both the head above my shoulders and the head below my waist decided that saying "No" was not an option.

This past week, I attended their 2nd party. The crowd was mostly white and light Latino. I was for a good while the only Black guy there, and there was maybe one Asian. This bunch didn't seem to know each other, but they stuck to that color and ethnic combo scheme of playing only with whites and light Latinos. I was about to consider the night a bust and leave when I saw a number of guys preparing to leave. Thinking to myself, "Good riddance!"

I rethought about leaving in hopes of a new wave of guys coming in. It turns out, that was a good idea.

This next wave seemed to be more into displaying the diversity in the kink that this party was marketed to allow. Such as the couple who was actually there in the 1st wave of guys who later brought out their gear to do some flogging.

Before this however, en route to the restroom, I saw these 3 young guys getting undressed. I looked at the 2 shorter guys, and thought, "Nice asses!" I got a little glimpse of their faces, and thought they were cute. However, a chance to really look at their faces never happened. Because when I came out of the restroom,...those 2 of the 3 were wearing puppy hoods. One blue. One red.

I have never really seen pup play before. I've seen some of what it entails (no pun intended) in regards to giving commands, but not when it comes to any form of sex.

On the upper level, I was standing where one would stand if they made an immediate left after coming up the stairs. This is where a couple of yards away, I got a quick look at the 2 pups fucking. One was fucking the other from behind. Afterwards, as they walked away to go back downstairs, the one who was bottoming ran his hand across my stomach. I reached back to graze and feel his smooth thigh, even though I wanted to feel more. I resisted because unless both guys make such a move on me, or one touches while the other gives a come-hither look, I feel like I'm intruding. And at that time it was evident that only one of them might have been interested in playing with me. However, a little while later, that changed.

Walking around, I saw the 2 young pups again. This time, they were sucking each other off. I was wondering how was that possible with their hoods on. Because I had never seen puppy hoods that before, so I was unaware if there was anyno access to the mouth. With that being the case, I was also wondering how they were kissing.

During a break from their sucking, an older white male went over to them to start sucking on them. No hesitation whatsoever concerning himself with if he might be intruding or not. I learned firsthand that he had little regard in pacing himself to see if his intended prey wanted to actually be his prey. Lucky for him, the pups did allow him to come over to him. However, that was also the point when they started looking at me more.

I thought the pups might have been checking me out while they were going down on each other. but I was unsure. What made me unsure were the dim lights, the shadows over their eyes from their hoods, and no other body language. It wasn't until the white guy went down on them, and I went in for a closer look that there was no mistaking of their interest in me.

This time, it was the one who was topping in their fuck session earlier who looked at me. He moved his right hand a little bit away from his body as I stroked my cock. As I stepped a little closer, he let me reach down for his cock. I then went to my knees, and started sucking him off. He got rock hard in my mouth. He barked out a few "Woof"s in his pleasure of my cocksucking skills. He also started to reach behind me to feel my ass, and to of all things, finger me, which I usually hate. Well obviously, this time that was not the case. For not only did I let him finger me, but I also made my hole give his finger a little squeeze to show what kind of massage his (or his boyfriend's) dick would get if either of them used it to replace that finger.

At some point, he stopped to kiss me. I thought that was impossible with that hood. I braced myself for whatever he was going to do to try simulating a kiss. Next thing I knew, his lips and mine were connected. For his hood was not like the one single puppy hood I've seen up close. It had a space for the mouth to be out.

At another point, he stopped and passed me over to his boyfriend so he would know why he was making so many doggy sounds in pleasure. The boyfriend soon found out as well as I was then sucking on him.

Soon after, I found myself back with the one I was originally sucking on. Only this time, he decided to return the favor by sucking on me. He sucked on me a good long time. Good enough to not lose my hard-on. Nor did I get bored. He also spanked my ass with the spanks getting increasingly harder. And me getting increasingly hornier knowing that part of the draw for him was the softness of my bubbly ass against the palm of his hand.

Some degree to my chagrin, neither of those pups put their dick in my ass. I say some degree because even though we didn't fuck, I left quite satisfied without shooting a bit of jizz. That pup's blowjob however sure did make my dickhead wet with pre-cum. So yes, I left with a smile on my face.

My 2 visits to IncubusNYC thus far have made it progress from being another regular sex party on its 1st night, to another regular sex party during the beginning of its 2nd night, then morphing into the kink-appreciative party it was intended to be during the other half of that 2nd night. Such progress of action shows promise in the parties success. So I do hope that as IncubusNYC progresses to the point that more gay New Yorkers partake of what the party was meant to allow, and do so at an earlier part of the night. Even though it does happen on Wednesdays, which is a crap-shoot night in regards to success for most gay parties in the city.
You would think that would be a guarantee night, because after all, Wednesday is Hump Day. So if you find yourself wanting to make Wednesday live up to its nickname during on the 3rd and 4th Wednesday of the month, and you're open-minded to be in the midst of various forms of kink, here's one idea of where you can go. For the premise of the party is great. So it's up to us kinky New Yorkers and our kinky visitors to show how much that premise works for us.

Friday, March 16, 2018

Tease of a Forgetten Porn Scene's BTS

Every porn scene has a behind-the-scenes tale that often has some surprising facts in it. So this behind-the-scenes story is a tease from one of my least known porn movies, "All Out Assault". I'll give a more full story, with more shocking bits in my autobiography.

So let's start with how the pic to the right is not the DVD's cover. It almost was though. For the director posted pics of every sexual pairing from the movie in a cover pic for his followers to vote on. This pic of me and my scene partner Taino was in 1st place until the cover with Mario Ortiz and Mike Dreyden was posted. Analyzing how that came about might be something else to save for the autobiography. So moving on with today...

By the time the 2007 Gay Erotic Expo came around, I was on the verge of being done with the gay porn industry. I only went that year to give the industry one more chance to stop being the racist, bottom-demeaning, rape-inciting shit pit it was (and sadly still is) before pulling myself out of it.

I wrote a blog post expressing my disappointment of how little hope I left there with. For the only hope keeping me around longer was meeting a new porn company's director, and a stud working a booth at another new porn company.

The porn director of the 1st new company I saw, Knight Stick Films wound up being the first and only director to keep his promise of being in touch. Even Rafael Alencar didn't keep his promise, but the director of a lesser known company did. And not only that, but this director conducted his business in a way that I wanted - he wanted to put together guys with genuine attractions to each other. Not like most of studio-based porn today, which is nothing more than directors being pimps throwing together 2 or more prostitutes who are way more attracted to money than each other.

Luckily, Taino and myself did have an actual attraction. At first, when I saw Taino at a booth for the company Craig Sebastian, I thought he was doing what any porn actor working a booth did with patrons at the Gay Erotic Expo - being flirtatious to get customers. Just like I did my first time working the Gay Erotic Expo in 2005. But after my blog post about the 2007 expo, when I realized that Ben Marksman the director of "All Out Assault" paired me with Taino, and Taino's reaction to meeting me in person to sign the contracts, I realized that the attraction was mutual.

After signing the contracts to do "All Out Assault", me and Taino exchanged phone numbers so we could talk about each other's sexual likes and dislikes so our scene would flow more smoothly. He called me the next day while I was on my lunch break from working as a mail clerk at Kenyon & Kenyon. A lunch break during which I was shopping at the (no more) clothing store Daffy's. So yes, I was walking through Daffy's near the walls to avoid customers from hearing me talk about liking to suck dick, talk dirty, and be spanked (among other things) while fucking.

We also discussed Taino not liking to eat ass. I informed him that I overheard that in a conversation he had with the director the night we signed our contracts. So imagine my shock when Taino rimmed my ass like it was pair of chocolate smash-cakes for adults.


That's one behind the scenes tale for you. Here's another part that I've talked about before, but from here on out, I'll save the details for my autobiography --- The scene almost ended up having me as the top and Taino as the bottom. Enjoy.

Monday, March 12, 2018

Sex Toy Review: We-Vibe Verge

Before I start, my apologies to We-Vibe. For this review of their Verge cockring is long overdue in response to their gratitude for my Nude Dude Review of the We-Vibe Nova.

The Verge cockring by We-Vibe is a vibrating cockring primarily meant to stimulate a male-bodied persons perineum (a.k.a. taint) during sex.
To accommodate most bodies for this purpose, the Verge is quite wide, and not as stretchy as its brother cockring from We-Vibe, the Pivot. However, if the person is thick enough, then the Verge may also help with the purpose most cockrings are made for. That purpose being to make the blood flowing into the penis to cause an erection not leave so easily.

The beauty of this cockring is that while it’s marketed primarily to stimulate the perineum, it can be turned and placed in different ways to make it stimulate more than just the taint. It can also stimulate other parts in that area instead of the taint on the wearer, and/or stimulate parts of the sex partner of the wearer.
  
Let’s look at different ways one can wear a Verge. All of which I have tried with a playmate and can guarantee the pleasure given.

This is the marketed way to wear the We-Vibe Verge:
Worn this way, it stimulates the base of the cock, and since it is so wide, it will rock back and forth during penetration or while the wearer is being ridden by their partner. With each pressure against it from either causing the vibration to hit more against the taint. During deeper penetrations, the wearer's partner may feel the vibration along the upper-half of their vaginal lips or anus, depending on which part and gender is embracing the wearer's member.

Wearing the We-Vibe Verge this way makes it great for both vaginal and anal sex:
For vaginal sex, the wearer will of course feel their chosen vibration around the penis and testicles. Meanwhile, the part shown in the above pic that in the marketed position stimulates the taint would in this case stimulate the clitoris.

Wearing the Verge this way for anal sex will give that same vibration to the crotch while vibrating near the bottom's anus like all of these positions. The addition to using the Verge in this way is that in sexual positions like (or similar to) doggy-style it can stimulate the bottom's ass crack, while in positions like missionary it can stimulate the bottom's taint instead of that of the wearer's.

This last position, like the initial one mentioned, is very much for the wearer's pleasure.
For wearing the Verge this way cups and tickles the wearer's testicles from behind during penetration, or while he's being ridden by his partner.


The We-Vibe Verge is USB rechargeable. It is made of silicone, so it is non-porous, and can be easily cleaned with soap and water or an anti-bacterial cleaner. With that it is also waterproof, so any of the ways to wear it mentioned or that you can think of can also be done in the tub or shower. The Verge also comes with 10 vibration patterns. The intensity of each pattern can be easily controlled by downloading the We-Connect app and syncing the Verge to it. Another plus to using the We-Connect app is that with it, you can create your own vibration pattern.

Like with my playmates, I live by the old saying "variety is the spice of life". With that said, for its variety in vibration patterns, ways in can be worn, and targets of stimulation, if you're not really looking for the traditional purpose for a cockring, then I definitely give a high rating to the We-Vibe Verge.

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